It's so hot

I know I shouldn't live in Phoenix in the summer, but that's were my husband and children are! I just feel the need to complain this morning about how hot it is already. It was HOT at 9 AM getting in the car, and at 10 after the car sat in the sun for 30 minutes, ugh. R had an eye appointment this morning. She is barely nearsighted, and even though she wants glasses desperately, I would like to wait until she really needs them to see. She is most mad at me. But since I've had glasses/contacts since 1st grade, I know what a pain they can be, she doesn't "see" that yet, only desperation. I really, really wish for a pool in the backyard. I think it would be easier to go out in the heat, knowing I could come home and jump in the pool and cool off.